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PreDating Speed Dating

I'm a marriage counselor, so that fact is no shocker. I can be happy doing anything as long as it's with the right person. But not a venue in which I expect to shine.

Paid dating sites are boring, we're a lot more fun! You will get more interest and responses here than all paid dating sites combined! One thing they all agree on: I need to take that nerdy appointment book and pen out of my shirt pocket.

PreDating Speed Dating - Start dating in Champaign today!

SpeedDating has arrived in Champaign-Urbana as the latest way for busy single people to meet busy single people. I will be a participant at Boltini Lounge's version soon, and will provide a full report afterward. Here's how it works. We will couple-up and spend 3—8 minutes face to face at a table. Signal sounds, and we move on; musical chairs-like, to the next candidate for another hasty once over. That's barely enough time for me to say something stupid, or to allow the perspiration to dry before my sweat glands get their next call to action. I'm uncertain how I'll do. You know what they say; authenticity is everything, once you've learned to fake that, you've got it made. In my dating experience I've learned that women are wary. There are men out there who are character deficient. I'm a marriage counselor, so that fact is no shocker. Men have betrayed them, broken promises, hidden their debts, and lied about appreciating sunsets. SpeedDating will be fun. But not a venue in which I expect to shine. I am an acquired taste, like sardines or bagpipes. I hate small talk. I have learned so much about myself and divorced American females. We all have a profile with photos and a self-description that includes what we're looking for in a partner. I think by now I could write them myself in less than 8 minutes. After talking with hundreds of clients, male and female over the last 30 years about the deepest issues of life, I feel well informed about what women are looking for in a partner. Add to that what I've learned on Match. Com, and maybe I could be a real charming candidate, at least for 3-8 minutes. Plus, I have a supportive choir of dating coaches and fashion advisors. One thing they all agree on: I need to take that nerdy appointment book and pen out of my shirt pocket. Against my better judgment, I actually took their advice. On a date, I carried the little book into the restaurant because I could not bear to leave it in my car. I was capable of 2 hours without it's comforting presence against my bosom, but I needed it at least nearby. Wouldn't you know it, I lost it, and spent 2 frantic hours the next morning locating it. The best advice i have received so far came from my 9 year old daughter Kaitlin. After looking at a profile photo of someone on Match. I could use the support. And someone to hold my appointment book.